Thursday, June 24, 2010
World Cup
This World cup has me scratching my head from the start. Every team I was rooting for is etiher out or looking very very shabby. Nigeria seriously was embarrassing. I really have nutin to say about them. France crushed my heart like a bug. I was hoping they would make it to quarter finals. England is still alive so lets see if they would improve. Netherland is looking good too. Brazil, epic as usual. Portugal better turn it up. Am still mad @ usa making it thru. I hate that team and country.Italy pls dont go home. pls I beg of you. Japan am rooting for you. Spain, you were looking perfect on paper. what happened? And the best of all goes to Ghana, shockingly am behind you but y'all Ghanaians need to stop blowing up my fone. shit is kinda annoying. And the refs need to be checked cos they ego trippin for real.
Thats what she said
At what point does it become gold digging? I mean it seems to me like there is a thin line between a female trying to have a man that can provide, in other words for a female to be in a financially comfortable relationship, and for a female to be a gold digger. That line is so thin in fact that sometimes that it tends to seem like it doesnt even exist at all.
So again I ask, At what point does it become gold digging? Its just a question.
Take me for an example:
I’m a single, young, decent looking female. I work, make my own money and what not. So lets just say a man comes around and decides he wants to scoop me, right. And on top of all that lets just say this particular dude just happens to have a nice sum of cash in his wallet, a constant flow of cash. If I wasnt completely interested before I found out he was strapped with cash and the news made me want to consider him more would that then make me a gold digger?
WAIT!!! Before you answer this lets consider this...
• Mind you I already have a job and I make my own money (not saying i would not spend his if he offers)
• Doesnt every guy want to have cash so he can get girls anyway?
• Does it make me a gold digger to want a guy who can spoil me and treat me nice? Does it really???
Biologically, women are drawn 2 men who can protect & provide 4 them ... maybe she isn't gold-digging ...
But what about when she actually is gold digging, how can you tell the difference?
Well, no disrespect or anything but guys are not the smartest creatures in the world, especially when women are involved.
.... thats all i got.
So again I ask, At what point does it become gold digging? Its just a question.
Take me for an example:
I’m a single, young, decent looking female. I work, make my own money and what not. So lets just say a man comes around and decides he wants to scoop me, right. And on top of all that lets just say this particular dude just happens to have a nice sum of cash in his wallet, a constant flow of cash. If I wasnt completely interested before I found out he was strapped with cash and the news made me want to consider him more would that then make me a gold digger?
WAIT!!! Before you answer this lets consider this...
• Mind you I already have a job and I make my own money (not saying i would not spend his if he offers)
• Doesnt every guy want to have cash so he can get girls anyway?
• Does it make me a gold digger to want a guy who can spoil me and treat me nice? Does it really???
Biologically, women are drawn 2 men who can protect & provide 4 them ... maybe she isn't gold-digging ...
But what about when she actually is gold digging, how can you tell the difference?
Well, no disrespect or anything but guys are not the smartest creatures in the world, especially when women are involved.
.... thats all i got.
She Speaks
One thing I hate hearing males say is: “There is no such thing as a good woman left these days.”
WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
Every man that I’ve heard say that I’ve asked them back “Well, what IS a good woman?” and they never seem to have a proper answer. And if they do answer, it’s always a vague one. For instance, I was having this conversation with one of my friends earlier and he said something like that. When I asked him what makes a good woman he said: “A chick that I can just chill with on the couch and just kick back, she gotta be down to earth, and none of the loud obnoxious shit, one that’s not all about the clubs and going out and having all attention on her.” (exact words)
His answer was similar to many answers I heard from other guys that I asked this question to. But all I could say back to him was “Really…that’s all that makes a good woman and you’re saying there’s none left?”
I know a handful of girls that would rather stay in and chill on the couch instead of hitting the club scene.
I know ones that would never think about cheating.
I know ones that are down to earth and are soft-spoken.
I know ones that are the best ones to just kick it with and play some video games with.
I know girls that will hold their man down no matter what.
So if that’s what makes a good woman, then HOW are they nonexistent if I know them personally?
I’ve come to the conclusion that these men don’t necessarily know what kind of “good woman” they want. Or maybe they just overlook the ones that pass them by. Because with the answers I’m getting, I can easily point out a few girls that fit the description.
And it’s funny how the fellas rant about girls who state “Niggas ain’t shit” or “No good men exist”…’cause the way I see it, saying “There’s no good women left” is no different. It’s all derived from some bitterness.
Don’t claim that good women don’t exist if you can’t even give a good description of what they are. And if you haven’t given all women in your life a chance to show you, how are you sure they’re not “good”?
I guess some men have a different definition of what a good woman is. But he question still remains…WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
Every man that I’ve heard say that I’ve asked them back “Well, what IS a good woman?” and they never seem to have a proper answer. And if they do answer, it’s always a vague one. For instance, I was having this conversation with one of my friends earlier and he said something like that. When I asked him what makes a good woman he said: “A chick that I can just chill with on the couch and just kick back, she gotta be down to earth, and none of the loud obnoxious shit, one that’s not all about the clubs and going out and having all attention on her.” (exact words)
His answer was similar to many answers I heard from other guys that I asked this question to. But all I could say back to him was “Really…that’s all that makes a good woman and you’re saying there’s none left?”
I know a handful of girls that would rather stay in and chill on the couch instead of hitting the club scene.
I know ones that would never think about cheating.
I know ones that are down to earth and are soft-spoken.
I know ones that are the best ones to just kick it with and play some video games with.
I know girls that will hold their man down no matter what.
So if that’s what makes a good woman, then HOW are they nonexistent if I know them personally?
I’ve come to the conclusion that these men don’t necessarily know what kind of “good woman” they want. Or maybe they just overlook the ones that pass them by. Because with the answers I’m getting, I can easily point out a few girls that fit the description.
And it’s funny how the fellas rant about girls who state “Niggas ain’t shit” or “No good men exist”…’cause the way I see it, saying “There’s no good women left” is no different. It’s all derived from some bitterness.
Don’t claim that good women don’t exist if you can’t even give a good description of what they are. And if you haven’t given all women in your life a chance to show you, how are you sure they’re not “good”?
I guess some men have a different definition of what a good woman is. But he question still remains…WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
Excuses
So its been a very very long time since i actually wrote or put some thing up on my blog, well I can go on with excuses for this but the Honest answer would be LAZINESS. At the beginning for the summer I was thinking about travellin and doing reviews on hotels and my trips but I had 4 attempts @ these trips but I dont think I got further then Toronto, cos some nigga always has to cancel or a party comes up or Laziness again shows its ugly face. But oh well the summer ain't ova and I have 4 hotels down for that topic so i should be good, look out for that segment someday soon. Also lately I have been asking for contribution from folks out there for The Commission and the topic matter doesn't matter, it just has to have a focus. So y'all send me something you like to put out there to be read and discussed or something. You shall remain anonymous if you choose.
Friday, May 14, 2010
hello
So I havent blogged in a while not cos I am out of ideas to talk about, am just too lazy to type. I Hate Typing. Lawd. But one well I guess I have to now. The summer is here I think cos its nice outside and my life is wasting away. I need a job. I have a list of Wants that I have to satisfy and also be productive. I cant believe i dont own anything gold yet. WTF. I love Gold so much but I dont know why i neva purchased a Gold item. So my mission this summer is to buy a gold item, buy an english bulldog puppy and do some shopping. And also make my savings account look presentable. This is a mission but oh well i just have to stop being lazy and get my hustle on. Also I hate the fact I have to wait till monday to watch Phoenix play the lakers, but oh well, I guess its back to hockey and baseball although my team the Detroit Red wings are out but the Canadians are makin a good run so I guess amm rooting for them. Yankees, nothing more to say. Good season ahead. And I wish y'all A good and blessed summer.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
A Good Night
So last night I did laundry while watching the cleveland vs Boston and once again Lebron tried to pull some bullshit comeback (that nigga needs to be teste for roids or alien tendencies), but boston came thru. So my nigga a.k.a Fuck Boy stopped by and we heading to the spot to smoke some and watch the pheonix game. So after the bullshit of goin to grab the trees to who is gonna win the game to why next man looks so fucking ugly to why nigga cant roll a fuckin blunt, the dust finally settled and game kicked off. Tsk Tsk spark, blunt lit, a tok of a lung full and the night begins. Pheonix is playing good and its looking cloudy in here. And then guess wat, some chooses to play some music. Usually am not a fan of listen to music with these nigga when we making environmantalists angry (cos we burn trees) cos all they do is play Gucci, lil wayne and the flaka bullshit but this nigga killed me with the first song. Y.O.U by Methodman and Redman. Yo I havent heard that song in a minute and nigga kept feeding us with that true hiphop for the rest of the night. But you know how niggas be, someone just had to fuck the vibe and play some lil wayne a.k.a trash but still I grabbed the wheel and stirred towards the Notorious B.I.G a.k.a Biggie Smalls lane and shit was right again. And yes phoenix won the game. BOSS. Lmao ye some nigga had to give himself CPR because his heart stopped beating. lol. something fucked always has to happen with these nigga but still it was a good night. But I got a Question, WHAT EVER HAPPENED TO HIPHOP. I miss those good days when lyrics mattered and pple had stories to tell not some Synonyms.
Thursday, April 29, 2010
Late Night Blues

Its 4.35am and i cant fall asleep. So I just finished watching a documentry called Uganda Rising. Very informing and sad Doc. so time for some music video and some food to cheer me up cos am starving. But once again dragons inn came to my rescue and guess what, they got new chairs ova there lol. shout out to my thirsty fish tryin to drink some mountain dew. P.s her name is Sheytemah. Probly gonna post up some videos I like
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