She Speaks

One thing I hate hearing males say is: “There is no such thing as a good woman left these days.”

WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?

Every man that I’ve heard say that I’ve asked them back “Well, what IS a good woman?” and they never seem to have a proper answer. And if they do answer, it’s always a vague one. For instance, I was having this conversation with one of my friends earlier and he said something like that. When I asked him what makes a good woman he said: “A chick that I can just chill with on the couch and just kick back, she gotta be down to earth, and none of the loud obnoxious shit, one that’s not all about the clubs and going out and having all attention on her.” (exact words)
His answer was similar to many answers I heard from other guys that I asked this question to. But all I could say back to him was “Really…that’s all that makes a good woman and you’re saying there’s none left?”

I know a handful of girls that would rather stay in and chill on the couch instead of hitting the club scene.
I know ones that would never think about cheating.
I know ones that are down to earth and are soft-spoken.
I know ones that are the best ones to just kick it with and play some video games with.
I know girls that will hold their man down no matter what.

So if that’s what makes a good woman, then HOW are they nonexistent if I know them personally?

I’ve come to the conclusion that these men don’t necessarily know what kind of “good woman” they want. Or maybe they just overlook the ones that pass them by. Because with the answers I’m getting, I can easily point out a few girls that fit the description.

And it’s funny how the fellas rant about girls who state “Niggas ain’t shit” or “No good men exist”…’cause the way I see it, saying “There’s no good women left” is no different. It’s all derived from some bitterness.

Don’t claim that good women don’t exist if you can’t even give a good description of what they are. And if you haven’t given all women in your life a chance to show you, how are you sure they’re not “good”?

I guess some men have a different definition of what a good woman is. But he question still remains…WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?