Thursday, June 24, 2010
World Cup
This World cup has me scratching my head from the start. Every team I was rooting for is etiher out or looking very very shabby. Nigeria seriously was embarrassing. I really have nutin to say about them. France crushed my heart like a bug. I was hoping they would make it to quarter finals. England is still alive so lets see if they would improve. Netherland is looking good too. Brazil, epic as usual. Portugal better turn it up. Am still mad @ usa making it thru. I hate that team and country.Italy pls dont go home. pls I beg of you. Japan am rooting for you. Spain, you were looking perfect on paper. what happened? And the best of all goes to Ghana, shockingly am behind you but y'all Ghanaians need to stop blowing up my fone. shit is kinda annoying. And the refs need to be checked cos they ego trippin for real.
Thats what she said
At what point does it become gold digging? I mean it seems to me like there is a thin line between a female trying to have a man that can provide, in other words for a female to be in a financially comfortable relationship, and for a female to be a gold digger. That line is so thin in fact that sometimes that it tends to seem like it doesnt even exist at all.
So again I ask, At what point does it become gold digging? Its just a question.
Take me for an example:
I’m a single, young, decent looking female. I work, make my own money and what not. So lets just say a man comes around and decides he wants to scoop me, right. And on top of all that lets just say this particular dude just happens to have a nice sum of cash in his wallet, a constant flow of cash. If I wasnt completely interested before I found out he was strapped with cash and the news made me want to consider him more would that then make me a gold digger?
WAIT!!! Before you answer this lets consider this...
• Mind you I already have a job and I make my own money (not saying i would not spend his if he offers)
• Doesnt every guy want to have cash so he can get girls anyway?
• Does it make me a gold digger to want a guy who can spoil me and treat me nice? Does it really???
Biologically, women are drawn 2 men who can protect & provide 4 them ... maybe she isn't gold-digging ...
But what about when she actually is gold digging, how can you tell the difference?
Well, no disrespect or anything but guys are not the smartest creatures in the world, especially when women are involved.
.... thats all i got.
So again I ask, At what point does it become gold digging? Its just a question.
Take me for an example:
I’m a single, young, decent looking female. I work, make my own money and what not. So lets just say a man comes around and decides he wants to scoop me, right. And on top of all that lets just say this particular dude just happens to have a nice sum of cash in his wallet, a constant flow of cash. If I wasnt completely interested before I found out he was strapped with cash and the news made me want to consider him more would that then make me a gold digger?
WAIT!!! Before you answer this lets consider this...
• Mind you I already have a job and I make my own money (not saying i would not spend his if he offers)
• Doesnt every guy want to have cash so he can get girls anyway?
• Does it make me a gold digger to want a guy who can spoil me and treat me nice? Does it really???
Biologically, women are drawn 2 men who can protect & provide 4 them ... maybe she isn't gold-digging ...
But what about when she actually is gold digging, how can you tell the difference?
Well, no disrespect or anything but guys are not the smartest creatures in the world, especially when women are involved.
.... thats all i got.
She Speaks
One thing I hate hearing males say is: “There is no such thing as a good woman left these days.”
WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
Every man that I’ve heard say that I’ve asked them back “Well, what IS a good woman?” and they never seem to have a proper answer. And if they do answer, it’s always a vague one. For instance, I was having this conversation with one of my friends earlier and he said something like that. When I asked him what makes a good woman he said: “A chick that I can just chill with on the couch and just kick back, she gotta be down to earth, and none of the loud obnoxious shit, one that’s not all about the clubs and going out and having all attention on her.” (exact words)
His answer was similar to many answers I heard from other guys that I asked this question to. But all I could say back to him was “Really…that’s all that makes a good woman and you’re saying there’s none left?”
I know a handful of girls that would rather stay in and chill on the couch instead of hitting the club scene.
I know ones that would never think about cheating.
I know ones that are down to earth and are soft-spoken.
I know ones that are the best ones to just kick it with and play some video games with.
I know girls that will hold their man down no matter what.
So if that’s what makes a good woman, then HOW are they nonexistent if I know them personally?
I’ve come to the conclusion that these men don’t necessarily know what kind of “good woman” they want. Or maybe they just overlook the ones that pass them by. Because with the answers I’m getting, I can easily point out a few girls that fit the description.
And it’s funny how the fellas rant about girls who state “Niggas ain’t shit” or “No good men exist”…’cause the way I see it, saying “There’s no good women left” is no different. It’s all derived from some bitterness.
Don’t claim that good women don’t exist if you can’t even give a good description of what they are. And if you haven’t given all women in your life a chance to show you, how are you sure they’re not “good”?
I guess some men have a different definition of what a good woman is. But he question still remains…WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
Every man that I’ve heard say that I’ve asked them back “Well, what IS a good woman?” and they never seem to have a proper answer. And if they do answer, it’s always a vague one. For instance, I was having this conversation with one of my friends earlier and he said something like that. When I asked him what makes a good woman he said: “A chick that I can just chill with on the couch and just kick back, she gotta be down to earth, and none of the loud obnoxious shit, one that’s not all about the clubs and going out and having all attention on her.” (exact words)
His answer was similar to many answers I heard from other guys that I asked this question to. But all I could say back to him was “Really…that’s all that makes a good woman and you’re saying there’s none left?”
I know a handful of girls that would rather stay in and chill on the couch instead of hitting the club scene.
I know ones that would never think about cheating.
I know ones that are down to earth and are soft-spoken.
I know ones that are the best ones to just kick it with and play some video games with.
I know girls that will hold their man down no matter what.
So if that’s what makes a good woman, then HOW are they nonexistent if I know them personally?
I’ve come to the conclusion that these men don’t necessarily know what kind of “good woman” they want. Or maybe they just overlook the ones that pass them by. Because with the answers I’m getting, I can easily point out a few girls that fit the description.
And it’s funny how the fellas rant about girls who state “Niggas ain’t shit” or “No good men exist”…’cause the way I see it, saying “There’s no good women left” is no different. It’s all derived from some bitterness.
Don’t claim that good women don’t exist if you can’t even give a good description of what they are. And if you haven’t given all women in your life a chance to show you, how are you sure they’re not “good”?
I guess some men have a different definition of what a good woman is. But he question still remains…WHAT IS A GOOD WOMAN?
Excuses
So its been a very very long time since i actually wrote or put some thing up on my blog, well I can go on with excuses for this but the Honest answer would be LAZINESS. At the beginning for the summer I was thinking about travellin and doing reviews on hotels and my trips but I had 4 attempts @ these trips but I dont think I got further then Toronto, cos some nigga always has to cancel or a party comes up or Laziness again shows its ugly face. But oh well the summer ain't ova and I have 4 hotels down for that topic so i should be good, look out for that segment someday soon. Also lately I have been asking for contribution from folks out there for The Commission and the topic matter doesn't matter, it just has to have a focus. So y'all send me something you like to put out there to be read and discussed or something. You shall remain anonymous if you choose.
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